Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Talkshow Susu Ibu Siri 2- `Guide to Maximize your Milk'


Assalamualaikum wbt,

Berdasarkan sambutan yang amat memberangsangkan pada talkshow susu ibu siri 1, Nisa' Wilayah Persekutuan sekali lagi menganjurkan talkshow Nilai Setitis SUsu Ibu- Siri 2 - `Guide to Maximize your Milk'. Ni adalah kesinambungan daripada talkshow yg  pertama :)

So jangan ketinggalan, book your calendar!

 
Penceramah :Pn Rita Rahayu Omar
Tarikh : 28 November 2010 (Ahad)
Tempat : Masjid Asy-Syakirin, KLCC
Masa : 2 petang – 5 petang  (masuk PERCUMA!)


SINERGI KELUARGA BAHAGIA

Alhamdulillah, Nisa' Titiwangsa bersama PKWR, YPT dan Yayasan Selangor berjaya menganjurkan `Seminar Sinergi Keluarga Bahagia' bertempat di Menara Yayasan Selangor, Petaling Jaya pada 13 November 2010 yang lepas.
Lebih kurang 100 orang peserta berjaya menghadiri seminar ini yang dikendalikan oleh motivator keluarga yang tidak asing lagi iaitu Ustaz Hasrizal Abdul Jamil, atau lebih dikenali sebagai Ustaz Saifulislam melalui laman webnya Saifulislam.com. Perasmian pula dilakukan oleh Encik Ahmad Fawwaz bagi pihak ibunya, YB Dr Lo' Lo' Hj Mohd Ghazali yang kurang sihat pada hari itu. Selaku penganjur bersama, pengerusi YPT juga turut memberikan ucapan yang antara lain menyebut tentang kepentingan komunikasi berkesan di dalam keluarga untuk melahirkan generasi yang hebat pada masa akan datang. 

 Barisan VIP yang hadir untuk merasmikan Sinergi Keluarga Bahagia
Antara isi penting yang dipelajari adalah cara komunikasi sesama suami isteri, dan juga dengan anak-anak. Personal favourite saya adalah semasa ustaz mengupas tajuk 5 Love Languages dan contoh-contoh komunikasi Nabi Muhammad saw bersama isteri-isterinya. So sweet and touching :) Sesungguhnya Nabi kita bukan sahaja tokoh pemimpin tetapi juga tokoh suami dan bapa yang terbaik untuk diteladani oleh kita.

 Antara buku-buku tulisan Ustaz Hasrizal yang boleh diperolehi di hari program
Seminar sepanjang hari itu tidak langsung terasa penat dan bosan kerana ustaz banyak menggunakan contoh-contoh yang berlaku dalam hidupnya sendiri dan orang-orang disekelilingnya. Para peserta juga tidak kering gusi kerana setiap slides ustaz sering disulami dengan jenaka bersahaja dan kadang-kadang meruntun perasaan..tentunya para peserta tidak sabar nak mengenali anak sulung ustaz yang bahasa kasih sayangnya adalah `perkataan affirmatif' :) 

Program ini berakhir dengan ucapan penutup dari penaja utama, Yayasan Selangor yang diwakili oleh Encik Abdul Rahim Abdullah, Pengurus Hal Ehwal Pelajar dan Pendidikan Yayasan Selangor. 

Sebahagian Peserta Muslimat Beserta Barisan VIP 

Sebahagian Peserta Muslimin Beserta Barisan VIP

Akhir kata, Nisa' Titiwangsa mewakili para penganjur ingin mengucapkan terima kasih kepada para peserta yang sudi menghadiri program ini. Semoga segala ilmu yang kita dapati dapat diaplikasikan dalam keluarga kita insya Allah :)  

Barisan ajk yang bertungkus-lumus menjayakan Program Sinergi Keluarga Bahagia 
p/s:- Special thanks to Dilla, yg merangkap sebagai photographer.  Cantik2 sumer gambar, termasukla si photographer. Sayang xde dlm gamb... hehe

Monday, November 8, 2010

STORY OF APPRECIATION

One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.
He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision.

The director discovered from the CV,  that the youth's academic result is excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never has a year he did not score.

The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarship in school?" and the youth answered "none".

The director asked, " Is it your father pay for your school fees?" the youth answered, my father passed away when I was one year old, it is my mother who paid for my school fees.

The director asked, " Where did your mother worked?" the youth answered, my mother worked as cloth cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hand, the youth showed a pair of hand that is smooth and perfect to the director.

The director asked, " Did you ever help your mother washed the cloth before?" The youth answered, never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books, furthermore, my mother can wash cloths faster than me.

The director said, I had a request, when you go back today, go and help to clean your mother's hand, and then see me tomorrow morning.

The youth felt that its chance of landing the job is high, when he went back, he happily wanted to clean his mother's hand, his mother feel strange, happy but mixed with fear, she showed her hand to the kid.

The youth cleaned his mother's hand slowly, his tear drop down as he did that.  It is first time he found his mother's hand is so wrinkled, and there are so many bruises in her hand. Some bruises incites pains so strong that shiver her mother's body when cleaned with water.

This is the first time the youth realized and experienced that it is this pair of hand that washed the cloth everyday to earn him the school fees, the bruises in the mother's hand is the price that the mother paid for his graduation and academic excellence and probably his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mother hand, the youth quietly cleaned all remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and sons talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director's office

The director noticed the tear in the youth's eye, asked: " Can you tell you what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"

The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'

The director asked, " please tell me your feeling."

The youth said, Number 1, I knew what is appreciation, without my mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, I knew how to work together with my mother, then only I can realize how difficult and tough to get something done.  Number 3, I knew the importance and value of family relationship.

The director said, " This is what I am asking, I want to recruit a person that can appreciate the help of other, a person that knew the suffering of others to get thing done, and a person that would not put money as his only goal in life to be my manager. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates, every employees worked diligently and in a team, the company's result improved tremendously.

A child who has been protected and habitually given whatever he did, he developed "entitlement mentality" and always put himself first. He is ignorant of his parent's effort. When he started work, he assumed every people must listen to him, and when he became a manager, he would never know how suffering his employee and always blame others. For this kind of people, he can have good result, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement, he will grumble and full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parent, did we love the kid or destroy the kid?

You can let your kid lived in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experienced it. After a meal, let them washed their plate and bowl together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to love them in a right way.  You want them to understand, no matter how rich their parent are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid learn how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learn the ability to work with others to get thing done.

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

SINERGI KELUARGA BAHAGIA

Anda inginkan formula keluarga bahagia ? kadangkala rasa hubungan anda suami isteri hambar ? Adakah rumah anda tempat kembalinya ketenangan atau sebaliknya??

Bagaimana pula membesarkan anak-anak moden ? suami isteri bekerja, hanya beberapa jam bersama anak-anak ? Bagaimana cara terbaik untuk tingkatkan kualiti bersama k...eluarga walau hanya masa yang sedikit?

Soalan-soalan ini akan terjawab di dalam program SINERGI KELUARGA BAHAGIA yang akan disampaikan oleh Ustaz Hasrizal Abd Jamil Master Trainer Saifulislam Training and Consultancy.

Kepada suami, isteri, ibu, ayah serta yang akan mendirikan rumahtangga, jom menimba ilmu di program ini.

Hubungi kami nisatitiwangsa@gmail.com / Puan Hajar 013 3904807 /tinggalkan mesej diblog ini untuk pendaftaran.